I think this time it’s over…
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He said – I don’t want to talk. It didn’t say, ‘ I don’t want to talk about it.’ – - So I guess this is goodbye. After 4 years of being together.. maybe it’s time to let go.
I am sad. I am sad because we both tried. We tried to keep it together. He cared for me and I cared for him. I loved him and he loved me. But unless we talk it out, there will be nothing. Nothing can come from silence – you all know that.
I was with friends tonight. They consoled me. I hope someday I will learn to understand what happened. I love my friends – dearly. They are my life. I was without someone for over 10 years and I had nothing but my friends. I cannot be made to choose between my boyfriend and my friends. It will be unfair for both.
I prayed two weeks before this happened. I asked God to show me a sign if it wasn’t meant to be. I asked Him sincerely and He answered me sincerely. I didn’t know it was going to be this quick.
I love him – yes I do. But who wants to love someone who doesn’t love you? Who wants to be with someone who doesn’t want to be with you?
I will miss him, that’s for sure.. but I already have my answer. We were not meant to be together.
ouch! first its Reyna, then its you. I have been hearing a lot of sad stories. Listening, reading every word attached with so much hurt and pain. I can’t I will go crazy! Multiple personality na nga na hihirapan pa ako!
thanks biik! I know. It was unexpected but I guess sometimes people do grow apart. I think that’s what happened to us. There are still lots of minor details that makes sense to me now yet never did before. Lika – inuman na!!!
thats the part i like about it. inuman na! gulp gulp gulp… but since I am a biik I would like to eat pwedeng pulutan na lang sa kin. Hindi kasi ako mahilig uminom… lol
ok then drive to his place!
knock on his door!
beg for mercy!
bring flowers!
tell him you love him!
FIGHT FOR YOU LOVE BITZ!
GOO!
At least he’s not exchanging you for a ugh.. ahh… woman!!!
awts!
lika dito mama chuvs… *hugz*
$ Reynz – thanks sa payo. Pero I think this time it’s over. Why would I want to go for someone who doesn’t want to be with me anyay?
$ Pink – sige, bumili na tayo ng Patron, help me drown my sorrows.
$ ghandee – salamat anak. huhuhuhu!! Ang hirap pala nito, para akong nanghihina sa pagod ng kaiisip..
I agree with you Chuva bakit mo sisiksik ung sarili mo … kay patron ka na lang loyal pa sa yo lol…
yan naman ang admire ko kay Reynz always reddi to fight for her
mama chuvz, baka naman naghihintay lang siyang lambingin, di kaya?
sayang nman yong 4 yrs na pinagsamahan nyo…
$ hello ghandee… yun na nga eh.. mabuti sana kung hinihintay akong maglambing, pero sa tingin ko hindi na. parang nabastusan naman yata ako nung sabihin sa aking ‘later’ without any explanation.. wala akong ginawa, or at least I don’t know if I did anything because he never says anything to me… siguro malabo na…
puro sa tingin! puro sa tingin! grrr! alam mo nag-break kayo sa AKALA.
i will request the supreme court to issue a writ of enchalada curpoz that you drive to princeton at maggewang gewang ka dun in front of him.
sinabi nang mahal ka non eh! hihintay lang nang lambingerciouzness mo!
$ hello reyna, masarap sana yung may reconciliation di ba? pero sa palagay ko, kung saka sakali man eh magiging magkaibigan na lang kami. hindi ko na kaya. so, magre-relax na lang muna ko. Mahirap na malungkot pero ano ang magagawa ko? take it as it is na lang.
$ pink – dalhin na kasi ang patron ng makapaglabasan na tayo ng sama ng loob. at least ikaw, seksi ka na simula ng hiwalay ninyo di ba? baka pumayat din sana ako.
it seems that everybody is convince that this man still loves you.. eh ano ba talaga? sige bukas dadalhan kita ng isang shot ng patron akin ung rest lol.. wag mo lang akong ligaw na parang kuting he he he he
yun nga ang mahirap – hindi ko alam kung anong desisyon ko.. aamuhin ko pa ba? eh kung ganito rin mangyari samin two years from now.. bakit pa? ayoko ng magmahal – - ayoko ng masaktan!! huhuhuhuhu!
Ateng,
Di sa lahat ng panahon, mainit ang lovelife natin anoh! Lalo na’t matagal na ang relationship, may mga panahon na kailangan lang natin ng space, gets mo? It doesn’t mean na porke di kayo nag uusap eh nag grow apart na kayo….baka kailangan lang ni fafa ng espasyo? Kaw naman, give him time and space noh – kailangan lang nya mag recharge psychologically. Then in a couple of weeks, give him a call and ask him out na parang alang nangyari… No need to be confused, mag drama or magpaka murat, gagah! NORMAL lang yang pinagdadaanan nyo, ano ka ba?
ey medyo late na ang reply ko–peroi this is still good as the steaming hotcake hahahaha… i believe when things are over–the feelings do change a bit… we hope for a brighter tomorrow=so insisting to go back will only do more harm than good… let go. tama ka dyan..me? i had to let go always kung nakikita ko na hindi na talaga pwede–no matter the number of years you spent together-when you let go of yourself , then, saka mo nararamdamang ang relief— more than sadness na of kors nandyan din…but there is always a chance to meet the next person who may have more than the previous one…. just look around you…and you will meet each other someday… kung hindi ukol ay hindi bubukol…. hindi kayo bumukol kaya hindi kayo ukol sa isa’t isa…. i believe in destiny, afterall.
hello po. it’s past 1 AM here. gumising po ako para maganda ang internet connection ko. medyo hirap po ako makapag-open ng site mo kapag 8Am-8Pm. di ko po alam why. ngayon pong madaling araw, ok naman.
Inay sorry po, alam ko, late na ito, pero wag ka po masyado malulungkot. kung talagang hindi na pwedeng isalba, sabi nga ni dom OSB, maybe it’s not meant to be. marami pong tao ang taong gustong magkaroon ng katulad ng relasyon ninyo pero hindi sila nabibigyan ng chance. siguro po, u should be happy na rin that you were given four long years.malay mo, meron palang naghihintay na mas maganda pa para sa yo. *hugz*
tama si Bea….. alam mo bang swerte ka at nakaranas kang umibig ng tapat at ibigin ng tapat din–pero nga, ang lahat sa buhay natin sa mundo ay may hangganan kung saan mayrung simula…. tulad ng ating buhay… may simula at may hangganan—
naku chuva, naging senti tuloy ako sa mga kanta ditong nilagay mo— kaya dahil na ‘carried out’ ako ay nakapag post tuloy ako sa site ko ng madamdaming post about my past experience of falling in love ..hayyyy buhay monghe, hirap ma in lab hahahahaha.
$ bea, salamat anak. alam ko naman na iniisip ninyo ako. salamat. please pray for me that i get over this without a scratch. tama ka rin, dahil i can cherish our four years together. kahit na ganun na lang ang pagkakahiwalay namin. salamat sa hugz!! ayan, naiyak tuloy ako.
$ tita dom – - tumpak ka rin diyan. at least nga naranasan ko. mahirap na masarap ang may relasyon. i visited your blog nga eh.. natuwa ako sa post mo about love. nakatulong siya sa kin in fairness. thanks ulit.
$ mam kutz!!! salamat sa advays. alam mo naman nakikinig din ako sa yo kahit lukarit ka. pero nahihirapan akong isiping magkakabalikan pa kami dahil alam kong talagang wala na. isang buwan ng hindi tumatawag o nag-i-email!!! ano ba yan? talaga bang ganun ako kadaling kalimutan? lekat na buhay to!
hhhmmm, chuva, chuva, ang maganda kong kapatid…gising ka naaaa….at pag gising mo, de deretso ka lang sa pupuntahan mo-wag kang lilingon, kundi ay madadapa ka at baka hindi ka pa makarating sa paroroonan mo…
don’t look back. keep your heads high…no use to force the issues–let it go. let time heal the wounds…and let God heal your broken fairytale….
not all of them end up happily ever after–
Chuva hija,
Ang lurrvv kung minsan kailangang ifaglavan ateng! Di naman yata kayo nag away di ba? Di naman kayo nag break totally davah? So technically, diagonally, vertically at horizontally, KAYO PA RIN, HOKEY?
Ngayon, kung ayaw na nya talaga, demand an explanation and tell him that you want to hear it from him…para may closure ka naman kamo! Zhokhet naman ikaw fafayag na basta na lang ganung “i don’t want to talk” piktapos yun na yun? Ang mas magandang gawin mo, lunukin mo ang pride mo…Oist, parang darna ba na nagalunok lunok ng bato sa buhangin!!! Puntahan mo ang kalbong yun na mint green ang regla, at kausapin mo…. Kung harapan nyang aminin sa yo na ayaw na nya, eh saka ka na mag “move on”… Day, mas madali mag move on kung nagkaroon ng closure ang imong past Day, teyk it pram mi!
Mam Kuta – salamat sa payo… haay naku.. wala na talaga. hmmmp… hindi man lang siya makatawag.. leche sya! gudbay!