Later!
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After four years of being together, going through the motions – traveling, taking care of each other, helping each other out and sharing things as if we’re one… this is all I received as a response – LATER!
I’ve had relationships before. The longest before this one was six months. I was very young then, didn’t know who I was and my choices weren’t very clear. In between that relationship and this one, I’ve had many failures. I didn’t know how to recognize a ‘good man’. Then I met him. It was the best – - no drama (or so I thought), just plain caring and always thinking about each other.
I didn’t know that four years will end up like this. Love is really just a fairy tale. Nothing lasts forever… and I guess I should have known that but we live to learn. I know it now…
To all you youngsters out there: I hope you don’t end up as jaded as me. I hope the best for all of you. But for me, this experience has given me a sour taste in my mouth.
OH WELL…
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da big and wide wide difference between you and me is that i cannot easily fly back to manila at pokpokin ang walanhiyang boyfriend ko, whereas you, he’s only about 34 miles or so!
can’t you drive? i’m sure if you knock on his door, it will be back to each other arms. GOOO! Get away from your friends at Bump! Dump them! HE needs you… badly…. I could hear him cry for your name…
He told me. I spoke to him on the phone!
bakit ba kasi ano nangyari?
pride chicken ba?
namili ka? kaibigan o siya?
hehe.
*hugz*
yeap! sandamakal na fray chicken. dvah??? kung ako nga kahit na nakaoff na yong cellphone nang bf kong pinagpalit ako sa kung sinong tikbalang tinatawagan ko pa! kung pede lang mag leave nang message sa nakaoff na voice mail, leave pa ako eh! nakkuu! isang drive lang yan, pagdating dun sa pinto, smack mo sa lips tapos yan!
Chuvs,
I’m so so so sorry….. There is nothing I could say or do to ease what your feeling right now. My only words for you is that; don’t think about the “what if’s” or whose wrong and whose right. You’ve shared four years together, I am sure you have given him your best and so did he. But, there are times in a relationship where you have to go on separate ways no matter what the reasons are, no matter how painful or confusing it could be.
I’m sorry if the fairy tale did not lived forever, but the most important thing is that “You have LOVED”.
LOVE YA!
why is everybody breaking up these days??
WHEN GOD CLOSES ONE DOOR, HE OPENS THE WINDOW. Trust in God to make things right in your life. Dungaw dungaw ka lang jan sa window na yan….hehehhe
AJA!! AJA!!!
thanks Malen~! That was great wisdom speaking through you.. salamat sa pakikiramay. Somehow it’s hard to understand that while one is going through something like this – but I believe that it’s true and hinihintay ko lang na bumukas ang bintana.. Salamat ulit sister!!
Arruuuuu, kapopost mo yan ng mga drama ng mga artista nahawa ka na. Feeling mo ikaw si Ruffa at sya si Yilmaz ano??? Okay, AKO SI ANNABEL!!! Tigilan mo ang kakadrama Chuva at hahambalusin na kita!!! Normal lang naman sa relationship lalo na’t matagal na kayo na mangailangan ng espasyo – not because you don’t love each other anymore…you just need your space from time to time period! Alang ekspleneyshun dyan, talagang ganyan lang yan. NUng pers payb years namin ng fafa ko, avah, inseparable kami, sabay matulog ebri nayt. After about five years, nakakatulog na sya sa harapan ng TV sa salas…siyempre aketch si romantik queen, avah, may i wake up si fafa para lipat sa bedroom… Ngayon??? Avah, care ko kung maghilik sya hanggang umaga sa harap ng TV!!! Naisip ko kasi, di naman masamang matulog mag isa sa king size bed, hahahahaha!!! Does it mean di na namin lab ang isa’t isa? Hindi no! Basta ganun lang yun, alang ekspleneyshun! Give him time and space para naman ma miss ka nya tapos, parang alang nangyari…balik ulit sa dati….
i have had a share of this stuff….and it was painful…very very painful…. after 10 yrs of being together,sharing moments together, sharing one bed together….etc etc.. in the end, ay mapupunta lang pala sa wala….that was so painful…but look?..i have survived! and now, i am the happiest guy in the whole world—
dom – nagulat naman ako sa yo! 10 years – - ang sakit siguro nun! josko… thanks for sharing dahil nawawala ang self-pity ko. naiintindihan ko na may mas malala pa na nangyari sa iba. buti ka pa nga, si Lord lang ang katapat mo…talagang hindi ka iiwanan..
$ kuta – - buwahahahahaa!! teklong ka talaga anabelle!!! nawala tuloy ang pag-emote ko sa kalokohan mo. eh panong gagawin ko.. maglulupasay at magpapaulol? eh ito nga, ni hindi ako padalhan ng roses at cheesecake para magkabati kami. sa totoo lang masarap siyang magmahal. baka nga ako ang nagkulang…trulala yan.. nung una kami, ganun din.. ‘are you coming to bed honey?!’ tapos sa umaga, gawa ko pa siya ng breakfast.. aba lately – dun na natulog sa sofa, naghihintay pa rin ng breakfast… avah – ano ko… chimay?
eeeeeeekkkkk…anong nangyariiii?…naliligaw ba ako?.. ito ba ang bahay mo chuva? baketttt?…ahhh, alam ko na,nagbabagong bihis ka lang–yeah, i guess- its time to change–its time to move on …its time to learn to get going and keep going onwards…. pinag pi pray kita…
yeah— ten long years yun ha?…. but in the end– nung hindi na talaga pwedeng i patch up ang lahat lahat—we ahd to walk away from each other civilly… ganun ang buhay kapatid….
Chuva gurrlll,
Eh vakah naman kasi masyado syang nasakal sa mga “responsibilities” nya sa relasyon nyoh ‘noh! Ateng, ilang taon na rin naman kayo…ngayon at may tampuhan, feeling mo ala na kayo dahil alang effort coming from his side na batiin ka (ie. tsiskeyk at rowzes). How about more effort from you? Meron ba? This is not the time para makipagmatigasan ka kung sino sa inyo ang unang makikipagbati. In the first place, ano ba mas importante sa imo, YANG RELATIONSHIP NINYO O YANG PRIDE MO?
Di ko sinasabing magpakagaga ka hija… Ang sa akin lang eh kung maisasalba pa naman, isalba mo. Kung di na talaga pwede, at sigurado kang you’ve exhausted all means, avah eh di tanggapin ang kapalaran ang move on. But until such time, maghunusdili ka muna. Para alang regrets in the end.
Tita Kutz. Alam mo tumpak na tumpak ka. Pero ang iniisip ko, pano kung chuvakin naman ang paglalambing ko? Ayaw ngang sagutin mga calls ko eh.
Siguro nag-give up na rin ako. Kasi nga wala rin yata akong F as in effort. Siguro napagud din ako. kaya nga hindi makatulog ang beauty ko no? Dahil hindi ko alam kung ako ba ang may sira or siya? Siguro ako?