December 15, 2007 – 12:39 pm | by Chuva

May Day: Yilmaz Bektas & Ruffa Gutierrez
On May 8, many were surprised that Ruffa Gutierrez and her Turkish husband Yilmaz Bektas decided to end their four-year marriage. It was in Ricky Lo’s column in the Philippine Star that Ruffa first revealed their decision, citing “cultural differences” as the cause of their separation.
The couple met in France in 2000. She was covering the Cannes film fest. He was looking for a boat to buy. Three years later they were married twice: March 2003 in Manila and September in a Muslim ceremony in Istanbul.
“We had a Christian ceremony in the Philippines, and then we had our Muslim wedding in Acarkent. It was the imam that officiated. It was basically a blessing. It wasn’t like a wedding for show. It was a blessing for us to be together,” Ruffa recalled.
The next three years in Istanbul was a life blessed with two children, Lorin and Venice.
Ruffa returned to the country at the start of the year to host Philippine’s Next Top Model. She narrated to PEP, “Ang dami kong tinanggihan na trabaho. But see, I’m living in Istanbul na nga but offers are coming. Sino pa ba ang hindi makakatanggi sa ganoon? Blessings na ang lumalapit sa ‘yo, so Yilmaz said he will allow me to work for five years.”
Then came the announcement. A feud erupted between the couple. Brickbats and harsh words were thrown at each other. Family members got hurt by in the exchange of accusations.
Weeks later the issue would tone down to give way for a possible reconciliation. Yilmaz suddenly arrived in Manila last August. The couple finally got together to quietly settle their differences.
But they still live oceans apart.
Court battle: Martin Jickain & Aiko Melendez
“Suko na ako.”
These were the words that Aiko Melendez uttered to her close friends as she left her more than one year marriage with Martin Jickain. Aiko Melendez’s publicist Ogie Diaz confirmed Aiko’s decision in his morning radio talk show last September 13. Aiko cited Martin’s alleged womanizing and partying habits as her reason for wanting to file an annulment.
Martin, on the other hand, belied those claims. “Hindi po totoong may bisyo ako. Hindi ako nagsusugal, hindi nambababae. Ni sigarilyo nga po ay hindi ako marunong. Droga? Hindi rin po, dahil may ini-endorse ako kaya hindi puwede.” In a later interview, the commercial model accused his wife of habitual gambling.
Flashback. They met in September 2005. In October of 2005, Aiko refuted reports saying that Martin was just “an ardent suitor.” By November, the couple announced that they were getting married on February 2006. Aiko was previously married to Jomari Yllana and they have 7-year-old son. Martin is a ramp model and was 2005 Mossimo Bikini Summit 1st runner-up.
Martin said he was certain from the beginning of his relationship with Aiko that they would end up marrying. “I just knew. It’s destiny. There’s magic between us,” he said.
The two are currently locked in a court battle on their annulment and over the custody of their one-year-old daughter Marthena.
Long distance: Richard Gutierrez & Georgina Wilson
The couple are two of the most beautiful faces in the world of showbiz. Richard is the lead star of various fantaseryes on GMA-7 like Captain Barbell, Mulawin, Lupin, and now, Kamandag. Georgina is the niece of 1969 Miss Universe Gloria Diaz and a much sought-after model.
In an interview with PEP November of last year, Richard was happy with the way the relationship was going with the model. Asked about the secret to maintaining their relationship, Richard said, “Wala. We’re just compatible and we understand each other.”
Sweethearts for almost two years when both decided to go their separate ways in September. Georgina is busy studying in Australia while Richard leads a hectic pace shooting for his numerous tv shows and upcoming movies. Distance and time is the cause for their breakup.
Annabelle Rama wishes that her son and Georgina would eventually get together again in the future. But she also understands their situation:
“Ang relasyon naman kasi nila long distance. E, ang hirap naman ng long distance, di ba? Nagtatawagan sila. Minsan uwi siya [Georgina] after three months, after four months…mahirap naman talaga ‘yon, di ba? Kaya naiintindihan ko rin yung reason ni Richard, pero sana nga magkabalikan sila ni Georgina kasi gusto ko talaga si Georgina para sa kanya.”
Failed trial: Dennis Padilla & Marjorie Barretto
After ten years of being together, Dennis and Marjorie made the decision to go on their separate ways. Their union had been having problems since last year. The couple decided to wait until after the elections this summer before announcing their decision.
They made their revelation to Ricky Lo in his column last May 25. It was called “trial separation”. In that column Marjorie was asking for space from Dennis. Dennis, in a separate interview, blames his ‘bad temper’ for their breakup.
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